I have anxiety, which means it doesn’t take much to bother me, but most things that do are within my control or are just a normal part of life. However, certain behaviors and attitudes that are beyond my control and cannot be written off as “just life” create a sense of discontent, urging me to strive for a better world. Here are the five things that bother me the most:

1. Hypocrisy: The Duplicity

We all have some contradictory behaviors. As long as people are aware of them, I don’t have an issue. Hypocrisy for me is when people deny this personal conflict and preach the opposite of who they truly are. This duplicity undermines the moral fabric and discourages genuine efforts toward positive change. Striving for integrity means aligning our actions with our words, promoting honesty, and fostering an environment where transparency is valued over deceit.

2. Subservience Leads to CORRUPTION

While slavery no longer exists and most countries are free to vote for their governments, it bothers me when people in power do not stand up for themselves or their beliefs out of fear of the authorities above them. Despite India being free for 77 years, it’s sad that people still give up their integrity to please their bosses. It’s easier to remove people from slavery than to remove the mentality of slavery from people. Being subservient, or excessively compliant, stifles creativity, independence, and personal growth, becoming a breeding ground for corruption, political play and mental stress. Encouraging assertiveness and self-confidence can lead to more innovative solutions and a more resilient community.

3. Taking Nature for Granted

Our planet is a fragile and finite resource that we often take for granted. The casual disregard for nature, seen in pollution, deforestation, and unsustainable practices, is deeply troubling. When the Indian men’s team won the Cricket World Cup, it was a moment of pride. Unfortunately, the celebrations across the country led to damage to city signboards and rubbish left on the roads. In our moments of joy, we forget that such actions harm our country and our planet. If we feel proud, we need to respect public property. This disregard multiplies when we believe everything around us in nature is for our taking. It’s essential to cultivate a sense of responsibility towards our immediate environment and the world as a whole. It’s not just the government’s responsibility to protect natural resources but ours as well to make conscious choices in our daily lives to reduce our ecological footprint.

4. Taking Freedom for granted

In Indian elections, voter turnout in big cities is often less than 50%. After a hard-fought independence mainly spearheaded in these cities, one would expect eagerness to vote. However, many people think their vote won’t make a difference. Complacency, or acceptance of the status quo without question, hampers progress and innovation. Striving for continuous improvement and questioning the world around us can lead to breakthroughs that benefit everyone.

5. Inequality: Injustice

Inequality, in its many forms, creates divisions and perpetuates injustice. Recently, we’ve seen how the rich can get away with even murder by writing essays, while those from less influential families face severe penalties for minor offenses or worse, are framed for crimes they didn’t commit. Economic disparity, social discrimination, and unequal access to opportunities hinder collective progress. Recognizing and addressing our own biases and advocating for policies that ensure equal opportunities for all is crucial.

striving for integrity, empowerment and responsibility

These five issues—hypocrisy, subservience, taking nature for granted, taking freedom for granted, and inequality—are significant barriers to a just and sustainable world. By striving for integrity, empowerment, and responsibility, we can address these concerns and contribute to a more equitable and harmonious society. It starts with self-awareness and extends to our interactions and the broader societal structures we support.

What are the issues that bother you, and how do you address them?


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21 responses to “5 Things That Bother Me: Striving for Integrity, Empowerment and Responsibility”

  1. Amy Mayfield-Beyer avatar
    Amy Mayfield-Beyer

    #3 enrages me! Great post

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  3. Nice write up.

  4. What bothers me and why? Good question. Not as profound as your comments. But I hate it when I’m spending time with people and I listen attentively when they’re talking, but the minute I try to say something, but they look down at their mobile phone as though I’m not there. It’s always the same people, and I find it the height of rudeness.

    1. Very thought provoking.

      Chloe

      http://www.thecoconutatlas.com

  5. This is a good reminder. I am working on few of these things. Hypocrisy is a difficult one, I notice that I lean towards the dangerous grounds however I love sustainable products and saving planet.

  6. Striving for integrity, empowerment, and responsibility are such vital principles, yet they are often overlooked in today’s fast-paced world. Thank you for the thoughtful insights and encouragement to uphold these principles in our daily lives.

  7. I found it very relatable and thought-provoking. The part about hypocrisy really hit home for me; I see it often and it’s frustrating. Your points on taking nature for granted also made me reflect on my own actions. I agree that we need to be more responsible and conscious of our impact.

  8. This post really resonates with me, especially the points on hypocrisy and taking nature for granted—it’s a powerful reminder of the importance of integrity and responsibility in our daily lives.

  9. One issue that often concerns me is the prevalence of misinformation and the spread of false narratives, especially on social media. To combat this, I try to be diligent about fact-checking claims before sharing or believing them.

  10. Well said. We all deserve respect, regardless of our present circumstances — everywhere around the world.

  11. Great post! What bothers me is that there are people in the world that are hating on people for who they are. Like being a different race, having a different religion, being of the LGBTQ+ community. Unless they’re hurting others or themselves, we shouldn’t fuss about people we don’t know for being different. It’s nothing short of utter ridiculousness.

  12. These are really bothering! Well shared. Few years ago lots of things bother me but now nothing bother me because I accept everything whatever it is.

    1. It is true that we are not to be offended by anything, Priti, but we are to use power (the authority given to us by God in the name of Jesus) to destroy the works of the devil, NOT accept the evil that is going on in this world.
      The whole world is moaning and groaning waiting for us to do the works Jesus did and GREATER ones!
      May you be one who develops your faith to do what He commanded: “Cast out devils, heal the sick, raise the dead, and perform miracles, signs, and wonders. This world needs us to “obey God”!

  13. Great post! I also struggle with anxiety and finally had to admit that I need help. Thank you for sharing your struggles with us.

  14. On this list, #4 taking freedom for granted – for sure!!

  15. This was such an insightful read! It’s inspiring to see someone strive for integrity, empowerment, and responsibility despite the challenges.

  16. I heard a long time ago we’re all the type of drivers we hate. Meaning what we dislike in others on the road tends to be what we do. I’m sure it’s not acurate for all but that type of hypocrisy does exist and runs rampent. I have a a friend who’s the queen of hypocrisy. She complains nonstop about others behavior without realizing she does all those things more than anyone else. Sometimes she’s so appalled by their behavior not recognizing it in herself at all. But anyway I’m getting off topic, we do really need to strive to be better and as you said strive for integrity, empowerment, and responsibility. – Melissa

  17. Tiann Jackson avatar
    Tiann Jackson

    I really enjoyed reading this and can totally relate, especially to the points on hypocrisy and taking nature for granted. It’s comforting to know others feel the same urge to strive for a better, more honest, and responsible world.

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  19. You write with much clarity and wisdom and yes, I share all of your concerns. I have learned not to “strive” for anything for I have discovered that I have no power in MYSELF to do the things I want to do and not do the things I don’t want to do. The Apostle Paul spoke these same words. (Romans 7: 15)
    Oh that everyone knew that we have life and death in our tongue, and that we by faith would use them to call into existence what is needed. We are children of God and have the power IN HIM to be just like Him. Jesus told us that IN HIS NAME we have power over all the works of the enemy. What bothers me is that most of us aren’t using it!
    I decree “light”! (REVELATION of truth and more!) That is what God did on the 1st day, and on the 4th day He decreed the literal light of the sun, the moon and the stars.
    Let us abide in Him learning what HIS mind is about matters and then decree His will.
    You are one who is seeking to do right and I praise and thank God for you.
    Blessings and love,
    ❤️✝️Michele

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