Ah, first crushes! They’re often a memorable part of growing up, wrapped in a mix of excitement, innocence, and new emotions. For me, it all began during a summer holiday when I was just six years old. My cousin had come over, and to keep us entertained, my dad rented a VCR…. a common practice in the time before computers and digital entertainment took over. He brought home a collection of children’s classics and cartoon movies, including Chitty Chitty Bang Bang and Escape to Witch Mountain. However, the movie that truly stole our hearts was Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak, or QSQT as it’s known today.

A Tale of Timeless Love

Ironically, my first crush happened to be a movie about first love. QSQT, an Indian retelling of the classic Romeo and Juliet, tells the story of Raj and Rashmi, two young lovers from feuding families whose love blossoms against all odds. Watching their journey unfold, I was captivated by the purity and intensity of their love. It made me believe in the magic of love at first sight, a love that knows no boundaries or societal norms.

Probably not the most appropriate movie for kids, given the tragic ending where both main characters die. But this was back in the eighties, and the movie was a craze. Surprisingly, for many years, I remembered everything about the film except the ending. When I watched it again years later, I was shocked by how it panned out… . Needless to say it didn’t age well with time… Despite this, QSQT had already left its mark on me, one that continues to this day.

My First Crush.. My First Dreams

After seeing the movie,….. I for the first time had ambitions.. dreams

  • I wanted to have a love marriage like they did in the movie.
  • I wanted to stay near a mountain like they did.
  • I wanted to be an actor and work with Aamir Khan someday…

Remarkably, two out of these three dreams have come true….. And hopefully will get to work with Aamir Khan someday! Probably the film’s exploration of themes like familial expectations, societal norms, youthful rebellion and questioning the rigid structures of society, encouraged me to dream beyond the conventional.

Music That Echoed the Heart

One of the most enchanting aspects of Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak was its soul-stirring music. The melodies were not just background scores; they were anthems of my growing-up years, capturing the essence of joy, heartbreak, and hope. Songs like “Akele Hain To Kya Gham Hai” became my personal soundtrack whenever I felt lonely. I would look in the mirror and sing to myself….. (roughly translated)… “Why should you be sad if you are alone? I can achieve everything with your support.”

In those days, when I lacked purpose and felt pressure from my parents, there was always “Papa Kehte Hain“….

A Lasting Impact

I would like to say that my first crush was Aamir Khan…. but I guess the movie had a way bigger impact on me in my childhood…. Like a first crush, QSQT has faded into the deep corners of my memories, overshadowed by other movies that resonate with me more today. However, QSQT was the movie that ignited my dreams, shaped my aspirations, and taught me the magic and mystery of first love…. It was the movie that started it all!…….

What was your first crush?….

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21 responses to “Magic of a First Crush: How Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak Shaped My Life”

  1. My first crush was on a guy named Giuseppe (or Joe), he was the most beautiful person I had ever set eyes on. 🙂 Then later, there was Liam, and I fell hard. He kind of looked like Stephen Gately of Boyzone.

  2. What a beautiful story of the magic of a first crush. I love the translate quote “Why should you be sad if you are alone? I can achieve everything with your support.”

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    Tiann Jackson

    I really enjoyed reading about your first crush experience through movies! It’s a sweet blend of nostalgia and the fun of first love.

  4. My first crush was unfortunately on my direct cousin, I was only 6!!

  5. Such a well written story. There is a passion, dreams and mainly dreams that came true.

  6. So beautifully written. Nostalgic! 💕

  7. Thank you for sharing this. It’s fun to look back at our first crush and the impact they had on our lives. Hoping your 3rd wish comes true, and so happy for you the other two did!

  8. […] Magic of a First Crush: How Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak Shaped My Life […]

  9. This is so cute. I havent seen this movie, but now it’s on my list!

  10. My first crush – that’s a memory that takes me right back to those awkward, yet exciting, teenage years. I’ll never forget the butterflies I felt whenever I saw her in the hallway or caught her eye across the classroom!

  11. Love stories like this! I’ve never heard of this movie, but now I have to look for it.

  12. Great thought.

  13. What a wonderful post! What I took away from this was how imagery/movies can help shape our minds. You saw a life you wanted to live based on the characters and fulfilled most of what you wanted.

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    Tiann Jackson

    Thank you for bringing back such sweet memories with your story about first crushes and childhood movies. Reading about your experience with QSQT, a film that also portrayed an unforgettable first love, reminded me of the magic and innocence of my own early crushes.

  15. Wow loved this article!

  16. I get it, movies like that can have a deep impact on anyone, I know some movies that have had that effect on me. Glad to hear that you’ve gained a loving marriage and lived near a mountain. Good luck with dream number three, becoming an actor and working with Aamir Khan!

  17. I only just realised this film was a retelling of Romeo and Juliet!! 🙂

  18. Ah you took me down the memory lane! I first saw this movie with some friends in the theatre and it as been one of my favourites, especially for its music.

  19. […] Music has also been a source of healing for me. Whether it’s dealing with personal loss, stress, or anxiety, songs have been a refuge, reminding me that I am not alone and that there is beauty even in pain. The music I love is a diverse blend of genres, artists, and eras, each contributing to the soundtrack of my life in unique ways. Music has also been a way I subconsciously communicate with myself.. There have been times I find myself singing tunes and then realising that the lyrics are what I am actually feeling. […]

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